No one will ever accuse me of leaving any vacation days on the books. But according to statics I’m the minority. In 2016, Americans forfeited 206 million vacation days. A new study from Project: Time Off, indicates we are likely missing out on much more, too. In late 70’s statics showed Americans understood the importance of getting away from the office. On average, we were taking off more than 20 days a year. More current statistics show it’s now down to just 16 days a year.
The first day of summer is 21 days away. Top of your TO DO list today
- Schedule time off for a vacation
I know what you’re thinking you don’t have time for a vacation. Find out why you NEED to make time, here with 5 benefits of using your vacation days.
- Reconnect
Have you noticed you’re constantly pushing off dates with your hubby or canceling “girls night” with your best friends because of work or exhaustion? When was the last time your kids saw your fun side? The reality is these are the people you’ll be sharing this lifetime with, not your coworkers. Disconnecting from work when you get home in the evening is hard these days. Technology makes it easier than ever to check your emails from your home and that phone you never put down keeps you distracted at the dinner table. Load that family up and pitch a tent over a long weekend and get to know your family. Sure, work is important… hey we’ve got to pay the bills but you won’t regret the occasional day off to spend on the couch with your partner, lunch with your tribe, or a play date with the kids. Taking time off helps remind us that we are a person with interest and hobbies. Taking the time to remember what they are with the most important people in your life will help us remember why we go to work every day.
- Send the right message to your employer
Ever brag about “never taking time off?” You probably also find yourself skipping lunch, staying late or coming in early. Without realizing it your sending the message that you can’t handle your work load and your boss has noticed. If you overwork yourself, you’re just going to burn out, get sick, and eventually do a disservice to your employer, your career, and your health.
Thinking your workplace will shut down if you’re not there to “handle everything” sends a negative vibe to your co-workers. Realizing you’re not as important as you think you are, keeps you grounded and appreciative of those around you. So instead of burying yourself in another project hand it off to a coworker with confidence and schedule those vacation days. This message is clear.
“I’ve got this and everything is going to be okay while I’m gone.”
This kind of confidence will get your coworkers and your bosses attention in a positive way.
- Recharge yourself mentally and physically
The anxiety that builds when you work like a million days all in a row, is evident. It’s only a matter of time before your brain gives out on you. Ideas dry up, and routine tasks become painfully challenging. Honestly look back on the work you’ve completed, is it your best stuff? Taking even one day off from the daily grind can help you be more creative, innovative and actively engaged.
Work stress has a negative effect on you physically as well. If you’re routinely putting in 10-12 hour days, 7 days a week, your body will rebel. Irritability, fatigue, insomnia, inability to concentrate, memory loss, eye strain and the unattractive result from lack of sleep, dark circles, are all signs your working too hard. Without recharging your battery, prolong abuse can also become a more serious health concern including high blood pressure, weight gain, hair loss, depression, digestive problems, skin problems or much worse.
If you want to give your best to your career you need to take care of yourself. If you think your burnout is going unnoticed, your wrong. You can only fake it for so long. If you’ve started hearing comments from your coworkers like “are you okay?” and “You look tired” then your cover’s been blown. They are on to you and even the most innovative excuses won’t cover for your poor performance. The cure is simple, pencil in some time off. Your mind and body not to mention that coworker you snapped at, will all thank you.
- Get inspired
Your creativity comes from your surroundings, if all you ever see are the walls of your cubical then it’s safe to say your inspiration will be limited. You know the refreshed feeling you get when you take 10 minutes away from your desk? Imagine how you’d feel if you took a few days or even a week away. Even if your career isn’t in a creative field you need to fuel you spirit to be at your best. You can’t be an interesting person if all you ever talk about is work. Have you ever endured a long-suffering story about someone’s coworker? Yeah that’s because all they have too share is what they’ve heard around the water cooler. You don’t want to be that person. Imagine the story’s you could share about your vacation to Greece or the Red Woods in northern California, and yes please pull out the photos. Inspire others to go on adventures. You’ll return to work rejuvenated and enthusiastic about life, because you actually have one.
- Adjusting your compass
When was the last time you woke up in the morning excited about going to work? Is your day filled with routines that you perform out of habit?
Are you even happy at work?
Taking time away from the office can help you navigate where you’re headed and gain perspective. It can be scary to reevaluate your career especially if you’ve invested several years towards it. You owe it to yourself to take time off and open your mind to all the possibilities. Allow yourself to day-dream on the beach over a long weekend, what’s that dream life look like? You may find that a day off gets your gears turning and helps you focus more on the tasks that get you the results you’re after or maybe you need to change directions all together.
As a parent, we are always setting an example, good and bad, for our children. Of course, we want to instill a good work ethic but you also need to show them how to live a balanced and enriching life. What kind of message are we sending when we express guilt for taking the day off or consider vacation time as an indulgence? Walking away from the computer, leaving the cell on vibrate or better yet turning it off and ignoring emails for a day or two teach a valuable lesson. Show them by example that they are a priority and that life doesn’t always have to be an urgent issue. Teaching them to appreciate down time will set them up for physical, mental, and emotional well-being.
Less than half of America’s workforce use all their vacation days. If that’s because you just can’t afford to take a vacation don’t let that stop you from taking the time off. You can “get away” without even leaving the house. Shut off your technology, turn up the heat, replace the recliner with a beach chair and schedule a marathon of beach inspired movies. Don’t forget to make yourself a pitcher of your favorite tropical cocktail. Leaving your worries behind even for a day can prepare you to tackle anything that comes your way at work.
I started off the year with a request to my family. I asked that we choose a date, set in stone, for our family vacation. At the time the date we choose was rather random, but as the calendar began to fill up it was important that it was written in ink. This made it easier to say
“no, sorry I can’t that week I’ll be on vacation”
Equally important was putting in our vacation request at work six months early, since we all have careers and scheduling at the last minute can be problematic. Bonus: the anticipation of a vacation is good for the soul. We are all looking forward to our trip and even though some surprises have come up since the date was chosen, like the announcement of grand-baby number two, we’ve made a commitment and we’re sticking to it. Look for my vacation pics coming soon to the blog.







When I’m in budget mode I start thinking energy efficiency. There are some drastic measures that can be taken to reduce power cost but the easiest and most affordable way is to become a conservation champion.


I’m going crazy for pink this season, particularly blush. A few weeks ago I noticed I was instantly attracted to the color pink. I assume this was because we are currently beginning our 8th month of winter and I was subconsciously seeking spring.
My sister is the clutch queen (she inspires me to travel light) I thought Oh.. I could totally see myself stepping into spring while toting only my essentials in this cute little bag. I was surprised at how much stuff I was willing to go without just so I could carry it.
Around these parts it’s likely I’ll still be stepping over puddles and dodging snow piles so a spring bootie is very practical. I found them on Jane.com. I’ve worn them with my olive jeggings, my wine colored slacks and they are awesome with denim.
up on my way to the checkout counter. Can you say impulse buy? No regrets- The best part of having a color obsession is you don’t have to over think the purchase. You know you have room in your wardrobe to make this piece work repeatedly. The cardigan is perfect over a navy blouse and I wore it with my
while I was in Paris. I originally bought it for my sister but just couldn’t part with it. (I bought her a different one) The light feel and feminine nature of it was why I fell in love in the first place and now I’m pulling it into all my outfits. If your not able to jet over to Paris this spring to pick one up then your next best option is
When I needed a dress for my daughter’s baby shower I found this beauty on Amazon. of course I had to hem it (short people problems) but it’s to die for comfortable and makes me feel pretty. Yep my 



1. Rest in a pretty place. My husband hates that I make the bed everyday. He will say.. “ugh. I just got it the way I wanted it and then you go and put it all back together.” Little does he know I’m doing him a huge favor. Crisp, clean sheets, fluffy pillows and a warm blanket are essential factors in a good nights sleep. In preparation for the time change give your bed a bit of attention. Flip the mattress,
4. More bathroom time. Go ahead and hang that do not disturb sign on the bathroom door. Take a bath, give yourself a facial or an at 

The Gym- my nemesis. From the day their doors opened I was a member. (we only have one gym in town and it opened about 8 years ago) and during those years I have given a lot to that place. Mostly time and money. My addiction has varied over the years from going there every night after work for an hour or more too driving by and waving as my monthly membership dues were being withdrawn automatically from my checking account. I’ve gone full out (yes I blacked out while on the treadmill and fell off and yes the security cameras caught it all) I’ve hired personal trainers, took yoga and spinning classes and embarrassed myself in more than one cardio class. But during all that time one thing I never did was lose weight, at least nothing that I was able to sustain or even brag about. So this year I did the opposite of what most people do at the start of the new year. I quit the gym. Yes, I’ve already started dreaming about what I’ll do with the extra money but what’s more important is I have a plan of how I’ll be keeping fit in the new year. It includes trying new things like being brave enough to put on a swimsuit and taking advantage of modern technology. Later this month I’ll share my full wellness plan for 2017.
The word busy has a reputation as being a negative word and I’m out to set things straight. We move so quickly through life. Work, social media, commitments and obligations all come at us at a rapid rate and we call this a busy life. It doesn’t have to be like that. We can take control of all of those distractions and get busy living the life we’ve always wanted.
